The 24+ Best Hinge Openers: Funny, Flirty, & Friendly

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1 “Best discovery: technology or grilled cheese?”

2 “What’s your go-to order at McDonalds?”

3 “If your life was a movie, who would play you?”

4 “What’s the worst pick-up line you’ve ever heard?”

5 “What would you do if you had a million dollars?”

6 “Would you rather know where you’re going on a date or be surprised?”

7 “What’s your favorite thing to do on a Friday night?”

8 “When was the last time you laughed?”

9 “What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?”

10 “Your smile caught my eye, but your dog captured my heart.”

11 “That pasta in Italy looks amazing, but I bet mine’s better.”

12 “Tell me more about your rock climbing adventure.”

13 “Your job looks epic! How did you get into it?”

14 “Your first pic blew me away. Your smile is contagious!”

15 “Where was your last picture taken? That view is incredible!”

16 “You’re a dancer? What’s your favorite style of dance?”

17 “I see you’re from Tennessee. How long have you lived there?”

18 “What’s the first song you heard from Adele?”

19 “What’s the most played song on your Spotify?”

20 “Out of curiosity, what’s your phone background?”

21 “It’s always nice to find a fellow geek on a dating app.”

22 “Kiss, marry, or kill: Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, or Rupert Grint?”

23 “I was really hoping we’d match 😉”

24 “Hey! How’s your day going so far?”

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You’ve Matched with someone on Hinge—congrats! What do you say that’ll grab their attention and guarantee a response? Below, we’ve compiled a list of the most effective Hinge openers out there. These conversation starters, ice breakers, and pick-up lines will help get the ball rolling and lead you closer to that date. So, keep reading to find your best Hinge opener.

Things You Should Know

• Scroll through your Match’s profile before sending your message to find similar interests you can comment on and ask them about.
• Give them a sincere compliment about their personality or appearance to let them know you’re interested in them.
• Start up a fun game or friendly debate to get your Match excited to talk to you.
• Inquire about their day-to-day life to learn more about them and their routine.

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“Best discovery: technology or grilled cheese?”

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   Start the conversation with a playful debate. The debate doesn’t have to be mind-blowing. Simply think of two things you can compare, and then ask what they think. You’ll both have opinions, and that’s a great way to get the ball rolling. Plus, this opener gives you a chance to show off your sense of humor.

   • “Pick one: treehouse or houseboat?”
   • “Worst thing: being hot or being cold?”
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“What’s your go-to order at McDonalds?”

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   Ask them about something that everybody loves: food! See where they side on an unpopular food opinion or ask about their favorite foods—the possibilities are endless. Simply think about what foods you enjoy and go from there. This is a fun way to start up a conversation and show off a bit of your personality. Here are some examples:

   • “I must know, pancakes or waffles?”
   • “What’s your favorite pizza topping?”

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“If your life was a movie, who would play you?”

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   Ask them a creative hypothetical question. We all daydream every once in a while, so why not ask them about their wildest dreams? Think of a fun or even flirty question to ask that’ll set you apart from other Matches. Try asking:

   • “If you were pasta, what type of pasta would you be?”
   • “If you were stranded on an island, what’s the first thing you’d do?”
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“What’s the worst pick-up line you’ve ever heard?”

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   Ask about their worst dating app experience. This opening line is smart and funny. Plus, it’ll give you a leg up on your next line—you now know what to avoid! You can even share some of your own bad dating app experiences, giving you both something to vent and bond over.

   • For added fun, consider flipping the script and asking them, "What's the worst pick-up line you've ever used?"

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“What would you do if you had a million dollars?”

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   Play a game of What Would You Do to start a conversation. The possibilities are truly endless with this game! Simply think of a wild scenario to ask them and see where the conversation goes. You’ll get to know more about them and give your opinion too. Here are some more examples:

   • “What would you do if I asked for your number right now?”
   • “What would you do if you spotted a zebra in the middle of the street?”
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“Would you rather know where you’re going on a date or be surprised?”

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   Play a game of Would You Rather. This game can be funny, flirty, or sexy, and all you have to do is ask a simple question! Think of two alternative choices and ask your Match what they’d rather do. Give one of these questions a try to break the ice:

   • “Would you rather be a taco or a hamburger?”
   • “Would you rather hold hands forever or never be able to hug again?”
   • “Would you rather kiss a coworker or a friend?”

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“What’s your favorite thing to do on a Friday night?”

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   See what they like to do in their downtime. This opener may seem simple, but it can spark many discussions! Plus, it gives you an idea of what their schedule looks like for future date planning.

   • “What do you like to do in your free time?”
   • “Tell me about your ideal weekend.”
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“When was the last time you laughed?”

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   Ask about their sense of humor. This question is super sweet and can give you an idea about what they find funny. Maybe they laughed at a movie or a joke their friend made. Either way, use their response to ask more questions to keep the conversation going.

   • “What’s the best joke you’ve ever heard?”
   • “What movie wins the superlative for Most Funny?”

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“What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?”

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   Start with a question about their wild side. Everyone has a bit of an adventurous spirit, even if that means eating a whole pint of ice cream. Try asking them this question to catch a glimpse into their life. For instance:

   • “If you could do one thing with no negative repercussions, what would you do?”
   • “What’s the craziest thing you did as a kid?”
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“Your smile caught my eye, but your dog captured my heart.”

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   Talk to them about their furry friends. If they feature their pet(s) on their profile, chances are they mean the world to them. Let them know you’re an animal person, too. This is sure to spark a conversation about common interests and lifestyles.

   • “No joke. Our dogs could be cousins.”
   • “I love your cat! What’s their name?”

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“That pasta in Italy looks amazing, but I bet mine’s better.”

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   Brag about your talents while commenting on their profile. Show off your skills and be a little flirty all at the same time. Find something in your Match’s profile you can comment on, like a picture or a prompt. Then, relate your own talents to it. For instance:

   • If they’ve posted a picture of themselves baking, you could ask, “Those cupcakes look delicious, but can you crack eggs with one hand?”
   • If they say they like running, you might comment, “A 10-minute mile is impressive, but it doesn’t beat my 8 minutes 😉”
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“Tell me more about your rock climbing adventure.”

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   Respond to their Hinge prompts. They most likely have at least 3 Hinge prompts and answers on their profile, so why not engage with them? Ask them a question based on one of their answers to break the ice and let them know you’re paying attention.

   • Let’s say they answered, “My most irrational fear,” with, “Banana peels.” You could respond with, “I have to know more about this fear of banana peels.”
   • Or if they answered, “A shower thought I recently had,” with, “Why can’t sharks swim backwards?” You could ask them, “So, did you ever learn why sharks can’t swim backward?”

13

“Your job looks epic! How did you get into it?”

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   Ask about their career or job. Break the ice by asking about what they do for a living, especially if they’ve noted it on their profile. This is an excellent way to learn more about them and get a conversation started. You could also ask:

   • “Super jealous of your job. I wanted to be a marine biologist as a kid. Is it as fun as it looks?”
   • “Okay, so you work at Dairy Queen. What do I need to do to get an unlimited supply of ice cream?”
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“Your first pic blew me away. Your smile is contagious!”

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   Compliment one of their profile pictures or responses. Sometimes the best way to flirt is to be genuinely honest. Did one of their pictures knock your socks off, or did their personality shine through their prompts? Don’t be afraid to tell them!

   • “I was cracking up reading your profile—you’re hilarious!”
   • “You seem like a really great friend. That group picture is adorable.”

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“Where was your last picture taken? That view is incredible!”

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   Talk to them about a specific picture from their profile. The best way to tell a Match you’re interested? Commenting on their profile! Try asking them about where a picture was taken or saying how amazing they look. You might say something like:

   • “When did you visit the Grand Canyon? I went there last year and was blown away.”
   • “Low-key jealous that you’ve been to Disney World. You look adorable in Minnie Ears btw 😉”
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“You’re a dancer? What’s your favorite style of dance?”

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   Ask them about one of their hobbies. Does their profile feature pictures of them doing something they love? Ask them about it! This is a great way to start a conversation and let them know you’ve looked at all the areas of their profile.

   • “You like to bake? Me too! I must know the flavor of that cake.”
   • “You’re a Red Socks fan? What a shame. I’m always going to root for the Yankees.”

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“I see you’re from Tennessee. How long have you lived there?”

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   Ask them about where they live. You can learn a lot about a person from where they live or grew up. This friendly question is personal yet not too personal, opening the door to all types of conversations about their lives.

   • “I’m from California too! Where did you grow up?”
   • “I’ve always wanted to go to New York. Tell me, is the pizza as good as they say?”
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“What’s the first song you heard from Adele?”

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   Ask about their favorite artist or band. Do they share lyrics from their favorite song in their profile? Use this little tidbit to your advantage by asking them questions about that artist. This is a fun and friendly way to learn about their music tastes. You could ask:

   • “When did you become a Harry Styles fan?”
   • “What’s the first Taylor Swift song you fell in love with?”

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“What’s the most played song on your Spotify?”

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   See if you have the same music taste. This question may seem simple, but it can tell you a lot about them. Who knows? You may just like the same artist or genre and find someone new to share playlists with.

   • “What’s a genre you love that might surprise me?”
   • “Who’s the most underrated artist of all time?”
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“Out of curiosity, what’s your phone background?”

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   Ask about their phone screen to get a peek into their life. Believe it or not, you can learn a lot about a person from their phone background. Is it a picture of their dog, themselves, or a sunset? This is a fun way to break the ice, and you can even share yours too. Here are some other ideas you can try:

   • “What was the last thing you Googled?”
   • “What app do you spend most of your time on?”

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“It’s always nice to find a fellow geek on a dating app.”

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   Geek out about your favorite fandoms together. If their profile features pictures or quotes from a fandom you’re also a part of, use that to your advantage! You already have one thing in common, so why not start the conversation with that and go from there. For example:

   • “Let me guess, you’re a Hufflepuff.”
   • “So, who would you side with on the Sokovia Accords? I’m Team Cap 100%.”
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“Kiss, marry, or kill: Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, or Rupert Grint?”

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   Have fun with a simple Kiss, Marry, or Kill game. Scroll through their profile one more time to see if they have a favorite celebrity or are a part of a fandom. Then, tailor your opening line to be unique to them. There’s no better way to talk about a common interest! For instance:

   • If they like Star Wars, “Kiss, marry, or kill: Luke Skywalker, Boba Fett, or Chewbacca.”
   • If they’re into country music, “Kiss, marry, or kill: Tim McGraw, Luke Bryan, or Blake Shelton.”

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“I was really hoping we’d match 😉”

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   Send a flirty message to capture their attention. A simple or cheesy pick-up line can work wonders, especially if you feel extra flirty yourself. Consider trying one of these one-liners to get the conversation started:

   • “Did you just come out of the oven? Because you’re hot 😍”
   • “I guess today’s my lucky day because I’ve matched with you.”
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“Hey! How’s your day going so far?”

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   Try a simple greeting if you’re drawing a blank. Your opening line doesn’t have to be something outrageously funny or creative. Even the simplest “hello” can spark a conversation.

   • “Hi! How’s the weekend treating you?”
   • “Hey! I’m so glad we matched. How’s your week been?”
   • Reader Poll: We asked 572 wikiHow readers which conversation topic they’d be most interested in discussing with a girl they’re dating and getting to know, and 7% of them said What she does for fun. [Take Poll]

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When's the best time to send a first message on hinge?

WikiAxolotlKeeper936

Just got a match on Hinge and I'm extremely interested to message her. I don't want to blow it and come off as too eager chatting her up right away, but I don't want to lose her as a match before it's too late. Is there like, a scientifically proven time that I should make the first move?

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WikiDugongFlyer785

While I think there are "best" times to send Hinge messages, I don't let that stop me from messaging people when I want. I'm looking for a serious relationship, so filtering out people who would've only replied if I messaged them at a specific time is a plus for me! Same goes for making the first move. Even if there is a "scientifically proven" time to make a first move, I'd rather not abide by that. I'm going to make the first move when it feels right for me, and if that doesn't work for the woman I'm seeing, then we're probably not a good match.

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Anonymous WikiTapir

Nah don't try to play games, I'd just message her back right away if that's what you want to do. I think it shows that you're interested in her. You'll only come across as desperate if you act desperate in your messages.

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  What are some tips on using pick-up lines or introductory scripts when meeting somebody for the first time?

  

  Michelle Jacoby
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  Michelle Jacoby is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder and CEO of DC Matchmaking, a privately owned, boutique matchmaking company based in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. She is also the Co-Founder of The Matchmakers Alliance, an international industry organization for matchmakers. With over 12 years of experience, Michelle specializes in one-on-one matchmaking and group coaching to help singles find healthy, lasting relationships. She has been featured in several media publications such as The Washington Post, Self, and NPR. Michelle holds a BA in Psychology from George Washington University. She is also a Certified Matchmaker from The Matchmakers Institute as well as a Certified Body Language Expert from The Body Language Institute.

  

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  I'm not a big fan of the pickup line. Sometimes they can be cute, but I really prefer an authentic hello to a prefab pickup line. I think being friendly is all it takes. I don't think you have to be super smooth or rehearsed all the time.

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  When speaking to someone through text, how can you read somebody in a way that makes the conversation easier since sometimes it's hard to understand emotions through text?

  

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  Michelle Jacoby is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder and CEO of DC Matchmaking, a privately owned, boutique matchmaking company based in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. She is also the Co-Founder of The Matchmakers Alliance, an international industry organization for matchmakers. With over 12 years of experience, Michelle specializes in one-on-one matchmaking and group coaching to help singles find healthy, lasting relationships. She has been featured in several media publications such as The Washington Post, Self, and NPR. Michelle holds a BA in Psychology from George Washington University. She is also a Certified Matchmaker from The Matchmakers Institute as well as a Certified Body Language Expert from The Body Language Institute.

  

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  Yes, text messaging doesn't really have any tone, so it's very easy to take things the wrong way. I think first of all, you need to learn how to write with tone. This includes using words like awesome and sprinkling in exclamation points and smiley faces now and then. I also think it's important to give people the benefit of the doubt and understand that you can take things the wrong way. As a rule of thumb, whether it's in person or online, I think positive comments are really important, as well as enthusiasm and warmth.

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