This article was co-authored by Bianca Solorzano, M.Ed. and by wikiHow staff writer, Jennifer Mueller, JD. Bianca Solorzano is an Infant Development Specialist, Montessori Consultant, and the Founder of Baby Tour Guide Inc. Through her company, she helps parents, educators, and caregivers optimize baby and toddler development using a Montessori Lens. She does so by providing one-on-one consulting, running her blog, and hosting the Montessori Babies Podcast. With more than 11 years of experience in child development, she specializes in supporting parents in approaches such as purposeful language, environment setup, toys/activities that aid in development, positive redirection and behavior, and directed choice. Bianca holds a BS in Child and Adolescent Development with a focus in Early Childhood Education from California State University, Fullerton, a Masters in Montessori Education from Loyola University Maryland, and the AMI International Montessori Certification from The Montessori Institute of San Diego for children Birth-3 Years. Bianca is also a member of the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC).
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While it can sometimes seem as though our culture discourages curiosity (curiosity "killed the cat," after all), being curious is actually really important if you want to live a [something and] fulfilling life. Read on to find out more about curiosity and how you can be more curious in your daily life. We also talked to Montessori consultant Bianca Solorzano to find out some ways you can encourage the development of curiosity.
Becoming More Curious
Curiosity is an innate human trait, but as you grow, it's possible to lose your curiosity. Increase your curiosity by asking questions, getting hands-on experience, trying new things, and exposing yourself to different perspectives.
Steps
16 Ways to Improve Your Curiosity
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Ask more questions. Think about what you know and what you don't. The more questions you come up with to fill in those holes in your knowledge, the more curious you'll become.[1] Ask open-ended questions that give you more detail—along with more questions to ask.
- Ask questions that seek an answer out in the greater unknown (the "whys" and the "what ifs") rather than ones that simply consolidate basic information (the "whos" and the "whats").[2]
- For example, if someone says "The Great Gatsby is the Great American Novel," you might ask them why they believe that. Since it's considered so fundamentally American, you might also ask what if it were set in another country.
- On a personal level, asking questions is essential for building relationships because it tells people that you value them and are interested in what they have to say.[3]
- Asking questions can help you encourage children to be more curious as well. When a child asks you something, ask them what they think first—then tell them the answer.[4]
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Expose yourself to different ideas and perspectives. Studies show that people who are curious are more open to hearing other people's opinions, even if they differ from their own. Increase your curiosity by seeking out people who seem very different from you and asking them about their experiences. Through polite, open-minded conversation you can learn a lot about how other people think and feel about the world around them.[5]
- You can also expose yourself to different ideas and perspectives by reading books, watching films or videos, and listening to music. All art gives you access to the way someone else sees and understands the world.
- Challenge yourself to change your own perspective as well. This can be as simple as sitting somewhere different and observing how your perspective on your surroundings shift.
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Practice active listening. Listening goes hand-in-hand with asking questions. When you listen actively, you'll find that you can more easily identify holes where you're lacking information so you know what questions to ask. And the questions you ask will open new pathways of discovery.[6]
- As you listen, focus on understanding why someone thinks and feels the way they do rather than trying to judge or categorize what they're saying.
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Dig into things that you're interested in. Research shows that you're more likely to be curious about things that are personally valuable to you.[7] Start with things that you're already interested in, then follow the rabbit hole wherever it leads, letting only your curiosity be your guide.
- Being interested in something acts as something like a neurological signal in your brain that can take you to some amazing places if you're willing to simply let go and follow your interest.[8]
- Following your interest is at the core of Montessori. As Solorzano notes, "a fundamental to Montessori in the home is following the child's interest and inner will to learn."[9]
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Take hand-written notes. When it comes to learning and retaining information, nothing beats writing things out by hand.[10] Keep a small notebook with you at all times to jot down questions and thoughts you have. Within these notes, you'll find all sorts of paths to engage your curiosity.
- For example, while on a walk, you might be inspired by the connection that you seem to feel with the birds in the trees above you. Writing a note about it could inspire a story, a poem, or a song. It could also spur you to research communication between people and birds.
- Writing by hand also activates your whole brain, so it can help prevent cognitive decline—just like curiosity does. Talk about a win-win!
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Explore the world without distractions. Often, things will become more interesting if you simply choose to focus on them. So put your phone on "do not disturb" and stick it in your pocket so you can keep your focus on the present moment.[11]
- For example, you might do a walking meditation deepen your connection to the natural world around you.
- Even places you visit frequently can become more interesting if you look at them from a different angle or focus on small details you haven't really paid attention to before.
- Next time you're out, you might challenge yourself to observe at least one detail in each place you go that you've never noticed before.
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Memorize things that you look up frequently. Memorization is the foundation of innovation and creativity. Looking up things all the time is really inefficient and doesn't allow you to progress. But if you already have that information memorized, it can serve as a jumping-off point for you to go in all sorts of different directions.[12]
- Having lots of facts and information memorized also boosts your curiosity because it allows you to draw more connections between things and think of different ways of looking at problems.
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Accept that you aren't always right. You can't be right all the time—the truth is, you've been wrong before and you'll be wrong again. To be more curious, value the truth over your own beliefs or your own pride in being right. If someone disagrees with you or presents evidence that proves you wrong, dig into it so that you understand it rather than rejecting it and getting defensive.[13]
- Another aspect of this is admitting when you don't know something. You might feel ashamed or embarrassed that you don't know something you think you should, but just remember that everybody has to learn everything at some point.
- Being curious requires you to be flexible and open-minded—but before that you have to be willing to admit that you don't know everything and you aren't right about everything.
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Teach someone else about something. You've likely heard that one of the best ways to learn something is to teach it to someone else. It's also a great way to get really curious about the thing you're teaching. Not only will you potentially be answering questions from the person you're teaching, but you also might have questions come up on your own as you're explaining.[14]
- Solorzano notes that "young children are typically eager to learn new things," so showing a kid how to do something or teaching them something new is a great way to stimulate curiosity.[15]
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Go for a walk outside in nature. Spending time in nature is really nourishing—and it's a great way to stimulate your curiosity. Observing how plants and animals interact with each other naturally is interesting and can trigger all kinds of questions in your mind.[16]
- As you're walking, invoke all of your senses. If you notice something, smell and touch it as well. This can give you more information to help you better understand it.
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Step out of your comfort zone. Being comfortable is, in many ways, the exact opposite of being curious. If you're staying well within your comfort zone, you're not exploring anything new or imagining any other ways of doing things. It's easy for the comfort zone to become an entrenched rut if you don't make a concerted effort to break out of it on a regular basis.[17]
- For example, if you've always avoided leading your book club because you have a fear of public speaking, you might volunteer to lead the session about one of your favorite books. Your confidence in the material will make it easier to overcome your fear.
- This also means changing up your routine. For example, you might take a different route to work, get your morning coffee at a different café, or brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand. All of these things have the effect of shaking the cobwebs off and giving you a somewhat different perspective.
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Try something new. Solorzano notes that "children love new things."[18] But as you get older, you might find that you're more cautious about trying something new. Start by making a list of things you've always wanted to try, then make a commitment to yourself to try at least one of them within the next week or so.[19]
- Trying new things also helps you cultivate a "beginner's mind," which means looking at things as though you're seeing them for the first time. Approaching the world from a beginner's mind is a great way to cultivate your curiosity.[20]
- Trying a lot of new things will likely also result in you having very diverse interests. This gives you a lot of different potential ways to connect with people and also makes you really interesting![21]
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Hang out with curious people. When the people around you are curious, it will feel totally natural for you to be curious too. Your friends will encourage it and respect it. They'll engage with you, answer your questions, and validate your curiosity.[22]
- Close friends and family members also give you a safe place to practice being curious because you know that they won't get upset if you ask personal questions. You can follow your curiosity with them without worrying that it could damage your relationship.
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Allow your mind to wander and explore without judgment. A big part of being curious is recognizing that you don't always know what you want to know. That's why, if you want to be curious, it's important to venture widely, exposing yourself to everything and following up on anything that piques your interest.[23]
- "Without judgment" means that you don't tell yourself that something is "out of your wheelhouse" or "not your area." You also don't tell yourself that it's silly or pointless to research something you're interested in.
- This ultimately means that you have at least a passing familiarity with a lot of different things, so you'll be comfortable in more situations.
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Experiment with different alternatives. People who are curious are willing to try different things before they decide for sure. Sometimes, you'll never know for sure which alternative is the best until you've tried all (or at least several) of them.[24]
- Being curious is all about valuing the process of finding the solution more than the solution itself—get more out of the process by trying a lot of different things.
- You can start small! For example, if you always order the same thing when you go to a particular restaurant, you might try ordering something different next time you go.
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Try to experience awe on a daily basis. The feeling of awe is something you experience when faced with something larger than yourself—something that overwhelms you and challenges you. Awe invokes humility, which puts you in the right frame of mind to be open and curious.[25]
- Art of all sorts is capable of generating a feeling of awe. For some works, simply viewing a digital copy online is sufficient, although others are more awe-inspiring in person.
Expert Q&A
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References
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- ↑ https://bigthink.com/the-learning-curve/5-habits-increase-curiosity/
- ↑ https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/question-everything-why-curiosity-communications-secret-weapon
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/8-tips-to-develop-childrens-curiosity
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-the-next-einstein/201407/seven-ways-be-more-curious
- ↑ https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/are-you-listening-how-stay-open-curious-other-peoples-ideas
- ↑ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/338514226_If_it%27s_important_then_I_am_curious_A_value_intervention_to_induce_curiosity
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- ↑ Bianca Solorzano, M.Ed.. Infant Development & Montessori Consultant. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/positively-media/202403/writing-by-hand-can-boost-brain-connectivity
- ↑ https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/newsletters/authentichappinesscoaching/curiosity
- ↑ https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/opinion-the-roles-of-memorization-in-teaching-learning/2020/07
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_stay_open_and_curious_in_hard_conversations
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- ↑ https://theconversation.com/curiosity-changes-the-brain-to-boost-memory-and-learning-32296
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/six_surprising_benefits_of_curiosity
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