Jeremy Sharvit

Dating App Developer

Jeremy Sharvit is a Senior iOS Engineer and App Developer based in San Francisco, CA. Jeremy has over 5 years of experience and most recently launched the app TextWise AI which helps users elevate their communication in a variety of settings, including dating apps. TextWise AI is compatible with any dating app, including Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder, and was built to provide assistance with crafting message responses and boosting user confidence in conversations.

Education

  • BA, Engineering, Concordia University

Professional Achievements

  • Jeremy has over a decade of industry experience working for multiple notable tech companies, including Shopify and Hopper.

Favorite Piece of Advice

Perfect is the enemy of progress. If you want to achieve your goals, no matter how ambitious, it’s better to start now than to wait until every detail is figured out.

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How do I get the most out of Bumble or dating apps in general?
My top tip would be to keep things simple and move things along quickly. From experience and talking with friends that are still active on these apps, one of the most effective strategies is to avoid getting stuck in endless chats. If you’ve matched, it already means there’s some level of interest or attraction, so the hardest part is over. The goal now is to have a bit of a back-and-forth conversation to confirm mutual interest, but you don’t want to stay in that stage for too long. A few playful or meaningful messages are enough—then it’s smart to suggest something casual, like grabbing coffee, meeting for drinks, or even a walk. Meeting face-to-face early on helps you figure out if there’s chemistry, which you just can’t fully gauge through text. At the end of the day, dating is a numbers game. Not everyone will be a match, and that’s okay. The sooner you meet in person, the quicker you’ll know whether there’s something worth exploring, and you can move forward without wasting energy.
How do I start calling someone pookie?
The key here is to not overthink it. A lot of people hesitate to be playful or forward, but honestly, dating is about connection and fun. If you feel like using a nickname like “pookie,” go for it casually and see how they respond. People are usually looking for someone that they can vibe with, and playful moments like these help build that connection. You can try dropping it in a casual way, or maybe during a text conversation or when things are already going smoothly in person. Something like, “Alright, pookie, what’s the plan for this weekend? ”Gives it a fun, non-serious vibe. If they laugh or go along with it, you’re in a good spot. If they seem unsure, no harm done, and you can just laugh it off. The important part is being comfortable putting yourself out there.
When is the right time to send sex emojis?
When it comes to sending flirty or sexual emojis in a chat, timing and context are everything. The key is to feel out the vibe between you two first. If the conversation is playful and you both seem comfortable with teasing or light innuendo, that’s a good sign the door is open for more suggestive emojis. It’s not about rushing—just like with planning a date, you want to test the waters with subtle moves and see how they respond before diving in. Start small. You could use something that’s playful but not too suggestive, like the peach emoji, and see how they react. If they engage with it or react with their own playful twist, you’ll know they’re on the same page as you. But if they seem unsure or don't respond to it with the same energy, back off for now and keep things on a lighter note.
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