How to Attract a Moon in Leo Man

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Amber Crain

Last Updated: February 9, 2024 References

You have your eye on a lunar Leo, but how do you get him to notice you back? Since a person's moon sign influences the emotional side of their personality, you can use that to your advantage. We've consulted professional astrologers to get the full scoop on a Leo moon's preferences—and we're ready to tell all. Read on for our comprehensive guide to attracting a moon in Leo man!

1

Wear something eye-catching.

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Leo moons are drawn to stylish and flashy dressers. This sign loves all things chic and dramatic, so the best way to get his attention is to look fabulous. You don’t have to wear expensive brands or completely change your style, but you want to stand out from the crowd. You can do things like:
- Wear bright, bold clothing that appeals to his sense of drama
- Pick outfits that are fashionable and on-trend
- Show a little skin to get his heart racing

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Walk into the room like you own it.

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To turn this guy on, match his big cat energy with some alpha woman magic of your own. This is all about radiating a particular vibe, so conjure up your inner queen and strut your stuff like an A-list celebrity. You’ll feel his eyes on you all night!

3

Check him out but let him approach you.

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Lunar Leos like to stalk their prey but they need some incentive. To motivate him, lock eyes with him a few times from across the room and flash him your best “come hither” smile. Once he knows you’re interested, he’ll start devising a way to get closer to you.
- Since this guy prefers to be in control and lives for the thrill of the chase, you don’t want to approach him first.

4

Be chatty and enthusiastic.

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A Leo moon is all about good vibes and fun conversation. Once the two of you are talking, it’s important that he sees how warm, friendly, and energetic you are. Respond to his questions eagerly, nod along as he talks, and keep that bright smile fixed in place. You can also:
- Use open-ended questions to keep the conversation flowing
- Touch him gently on the arm to show you're into him
- Lean in close when you speak to him

5

Shower him with compliments.

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Praise helps a Leo moon man feel appreciated and seen. Your guy has plenty of confidence on his own, but receiving compliments is emotionally fulfilling for a lunar Leo. As a fixed sign, he craves stability and needs to feel adored by his partner. He’s very loving and will make sure you feel adored in return.^{[1]
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- Leo suns can be a bit narcissistic and vain.^{[2]
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  Expert Interview} Leo moons, on the other hand, are very aware of their own flaws.
- Reader Poll: We asked 973 wikiHow readers who've dated a Leo man, and 69% of them agreed that the best romantic gesture is to boldly declare your love and give him thoughtful gifts. [Take Poll]

6

Focus your attention on him.

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A lunar Leo is used to being treated like a king. He wants to feel like he’s the only man in the room, so avoid chatting or flirting with other guys when he’s around. Your guy will seek out another partner if he feels like he has to compete for your affection.
- Leo suns are outwardly competitive and aggressive, but Leo moons are more likely to get jealous and seethe quietly.^{[3]
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Be positive and upbeat.

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Leo moons are drawn to optimistic personalities. Leo is a fire sign, so warmth and positivity are important to him. He puts a lot of effort into maintaining his own positivity and won't appreciate being subjected to someone else’s negative vibes.^{[4]
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- Keep the conversation lighthearted and emphasize the silver lining in every situation.
- Try to avoid heavy sarcasm, hot takes, and critical comments, since that kind of negativity will likely turn this guy off.

8

Keep things low-key in public.

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Leo the lion needs to maintain a dignified persona around others. Your guy has no problem basking in the limelight, but he’s very serious about the way he’s perceived and wants to project a regal appearance. He will run for the hills if you draw attention that embarrasses him or paints him in a negative light.^{[5]
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- Picking a fight in a social setting
- Stirring up drama in front of his friends and family
- Upsetting him or making him jealous in public

9

Invite him to a museum or concert.

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A Leo moon is looking for a partner who appreciates the arts. This moon sign is all about creativity! You’ll notice that your guy is especially drawn to music, film, and the theater since those creative disciplines allow for the most drama and expression. You might suggest a date like:
- Checking out the local theater’s newest production
- Seeing his favorite band play live
- Going to a foreign film festival
- Attending a gallery opening

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Support his dreams and goals.

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A lunar Leo needs your support to thrive. Your guy has boundless of energy and works hard, but he can’t do it alone. In his mind, the perfect partner will never waiver when it comes to supporting his endeavors and lifting him up.^{[6]
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- This is especially the case when it comes to his creative pursuits; a Leo moon really needs this emotional outlet in his life and your support helps him stick with it.

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Give him plenty of space.

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Clinginess is one thing that a Leo moon won’t tolerate because he sees it as a sign of weakness. He needs alone time to recharge and he’s looking for an independent partner who stays busy with their own projects and goals.

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Are Aquarius and Leo a good match?

Angel Eyedealism
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Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

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They can be! Leo speaks to the body and Aquarius speaks to the mind and brain, so it ends up being a brain versus brawn type of situation.

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