How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Leo Woman: 11 Flirty Tips

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: July 19, 2024 References

What happens when two dazzling conversationalists with endless energy and amazing vibes get together? A match made in heaven, that's what. Leo, if you're looking to make your Gemini crush swoon, you're in luck. With your radiant, irresistible charm, he doesn't stand a chance. We've pulled together all the best tips and tricks so you can use your incredible Leo energy to make him totally obsessed with you. For everything you need to know on how to attract a Gemini man as a Leo woman, read on!

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

1

Make him laugh.

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A Gemini's dream partner will be full of wit and humor. Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes that Geminis value "constant amusement." Men of this sign are thought to be the comedic geniuses of the zodiac, so to impress him, bring out your best material. Leo, because you love to perform, you’ve probably got a comedy set all prepped and ready to go at a minute's notice. To attract your Gemini crush, tease him, get ironic, or whip out your best impression.
- “Wow, this dinner you made us almost looks edible! You've really shown a lot of improvement."
- Before you leave the house together, look outside into the pouring rain. Turn to him and say, "Hmm. Do you think we'll need an umbrella?"
- Without warning, switch to a new voice during regular conversation. For instance, say, "Could you pass the popcorn?" in a British accent.

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Play around with him.

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Geminis want their relationships to be a constant source of fun. To attract a Gemini, turn regular experiences into amusing antics. When you're together, look out for any and all opportunities to be silly or entertaining. As a fire sign, “fun” is basically your middle name. So, prove that hanging out with you is synonymous with having an absolute blast.^{[1]
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- Grab a pencil, spoon, or even a cellphone. Sing (or lip-sync!) into it like it’s a mic. Periodically put your “mic” in front of him to let him take a turn.
- Turn everything you do into a game. When on a walk together, suddenly point to a tree and shout, “Last person to get there buys ice cream! 3, 2, 1, go!”
- Play games that you haven't touched since you were a kid together. Anything from Chutes and Ladders to Wii Sports will be perfect.

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Engage in energetic conversation.

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You and Gemini are the master conversationalists of the zodiac. To the two of you, there's nothing better than a witty, charming, enthusiastic conversation, so bond over long discussions frequently. Don't stress over your topic choices, because you two could make talking about tax returns sound thrilling. Just make sure you show him enthusiasm and energy, and he'll love you for it.^{[2]
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- Engage him with an interesting, open-ended question: “Okay so, you’ve definitely seen Inception, right? What do you think—was it a dream or not?”
- Show your enthusiasm through physical cues. Hold eye contact, use expressive hand movements, and nod your head while he speaks.

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Be the life of the party together.

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Prove that you're a social butterfly, too, and it'll impress him. You and Gemini command every room you enter with your charisma and energy, so make sure you're on his arm at every party. Impress him with your stellar jokes, karaoke appearances, and delightful personality. He'll admire your magnetism, and on top of that, he'll have a ball—which will add to his attraction to you.^{[3]
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- When you're talking in a group, tell your best anecdote. Anything that's earned big laughs or big gasps in the past will be perfect.
- Use your bold nature to bring the party to the next level. Grab the mic for karaoke, dance like nobody is watching, or toast the guest of honor.
- Charm the room by asking engaging questions, complimenting people, and remembering others' personal details.

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Teach him things.

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Geminis are avid learners, so he’ll value anyone who makes him smarter. Drop fun facts, discuss things you’ve read recently, and when neither of you knows something, search for the answer online. Brainstorm topics that you’re well-versed in and bring them up in conversation with him. He’ll feel like every time he hangs out with you, he’s getting smarter—and this will make you irresistible.^{[4]
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- “Hey, did you know that cows have regional accents? How crazy right?”
- “I read this article recently that talked about how owning a pet actually helps boost mood and lower anxiety. Isn’t that fascinating?”
- “Hmm. Now that you mention it, I can’t remember the capital of Vermont. That one always trips me up. Here, let me search it.”

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Inspire him to be bold.

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A Gemini will admire you for your natural fearlessness, Leo. With your Gemini crush, don't be afraid to make a scene. Call people out when they’re being shady, announce yourself when you arrive at the party, and wear funky, bold outfits. He’ll admire the way you do exactly what you want when you want. Encourage similar behavior in him, and he'll feel like you're helping him grow.^{[5]
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- When the two of you are out together, dance to the music—even when no one else is. Grab his hand and see if he'll join you.
- Wear trendy, bold outfits around him. When you go out, bring him an equally exciting hat or jacket and let him know you think it'd look great on him.
- When someone is rude at a party, stand up to them. By defending someone else in public, you'll inspire him to do the same in the future.

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Show him how independent you are.

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Leos are the queens of self-sufficiency, and that’ll be attractive to him. You probably have a million friends, passions, and ambitions, so every week, dedicate lots of time to those interests. Really invest in yourself; your Gemini crush will find that behavior super attractive. Make sure he’s aware that you’re constantly working on your health, spending time with friends, and going after your goals.
- Spend time enjoying exercise, like long runs, swims, and bike rides.
- Grab a pal and catch a quick concert, attend a cooking class, or go to a museum.
- Work on your goals. Log hours towards your pilot’s license, brush up on your French through an advanced class, or tinker with your website.

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Create a relaxed relationship dynamic.

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Geminis need their freedom, so if he feels smothered, he might move on. At the start of your relationship or flirtationship, keep things casual, light, and easy breezy. Anyone who micromanages a Gemini’s time will probably get the boot, so instead, play it cool. Leo, you crave all-out romance, but you have tons of interests beyond your crush. While giving him space, turn your focus elsewhere.^{[6]
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- Give him time away from you. He definitely loves hanging out with you, but Geminis need variety in their schedule to feel fulfilled.
- When you’re not together, don’t initiate constant texts and calls. Limit yourself to just one check-in each day.
- To become irresistible to a Gemini, try to approach the relationship in the same way he does. Enjoy your time together when you’re together. When you’re not, enjoy your freedom instead!

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Bring some variety into your relationship.

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Geminis are notorious for getting bored, but you're endlessly exciting. Your fabulous, one-woman show will enchant a restless Gemini. To keep him entertained, mix things up constantly. Show him how many different gears you have, Leo. Drag him to a poetry reading one night and a fashion show the next. Keep him guessing, and he'll be hooked.^{[7]
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- Plan various unique dates. For instance, go pick out silly outfits for each other at a thrift store and then wear them to breakfast.
- Invite him to join you in one of your many passions. Paint a portrait of him, bring him to your baking class, or show him your best piece on the piano.

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Tone down the dramatics.

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As a Leo, you may feel tempted to get loud and a bit dramatic when expressing your emotions. Instead of bringing this energy to him, vent to a friend or journal. If you slip up and make a big deal out of something though, don't stress. Apologize and then give him space. He'll appreciate your self-awareness and positive intentions.^{[8]
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Let him take his time.

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Geminis avoid their feelings, which makes them slow to commit. Leo, you may not feel like a patient person, but you know you're understanding. While waiting for things to get serious between you two, try to show your Gemini crush some compassion. Avoid applying pressure and give him his time. You’re amazing, and sometimes, a Gemini just needs time to think.^{[9]
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- It can be frustrating to wait around for the guy you like to commit. Discuss the issue with friends to help yourself stay positive.
- Recite daily affirmations to remind yourself of how incredibly fabulous you are, even while your Gemini crush is moving slower than you'd like.
- "I am stunning, I am brave, I'm exciting, and I deserve love."
- Reader Poll: We asked 432 wikiHow readers what kissing style they enjoy from a Gemini Man, and 49% of them said passionate and sensual. [Take Poll] He can match your fiery nature if you give him time, Leo.

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Are Gemini and Leo good together?

wikiHow Editorial Team

Gemini and Leo are two of the most passionate, friendly, and excited signs in the zodiac, so they make a great pair based on this alone! They're emotionally compatible and their sexual chemistry is off the charts.

However, Leo, passionate as they are, is likely to need a little more stability than Gemini is usually comfortable with, while Gemini is prone to feeling tied down if they feel like their partner expects too much from them. This is something they'll need to work through patiently, but don't take this as a red flag or a sign these two shouldn't be together: they each have a lot they can learn from one another, and they're sure to have fun doing it!

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